Post Date Wrap Up: SY

"who you are today is what your becoming tomorrow"
- Loren Cunningham

It's almost exactly a month later and I feel like I'm not the same person who wrote the october 16th blog entry. I've gotten more confident and more comfortable around attractive women. I can feel the difference in my game. Since then, I've gone on a date with LH. Tomorrow I will be going to a lecture with KM and amazingly I got to hang out with SY yesterday night. I thought I had really blown it with her just like I thought I had blown it with JK that night we broke the glass at triple but she digged me after that night.

So SY and I had dinner together. She actually paid for me! Not only that, she was the one who suggested we go to dinner together. Dinner was not cheap at all, the sushi place we went to was nice. The bubble tea was $7.00 for both of us. Sushi was $27.00. Granted that I drove her home but would she have offered to pay if she really didn't enjoy our time together? I thought the entire night went really well. She seemed like a really quiet person up until this point. To my surprise, she opened up and had a lot to say. I was worried that the ride back would be awkward and that we wouldn't have much to talk about but it wasn't like that at all. She actually started asking me allot of questions. She asked me about the cranes in my car and about how close I was to E.T. (was that another ioi?), the teddy bear from missions, my work. After a while I stopped worrying about awkward silences because the comfort was there once we got talking. I could feel that I had learned from my experiences and let her talk. I noticed the two people sitting next to us and their conversation was dominated by the guy talking about himself and the girl just sitting there and listening whereas ours was more of a back and forth exchange and good amount of laughter.

So the night ended without me putting my arm around her or making any kind of physical contact whatsoever. Not a big deal though right? My first dates with AW and my ex didn't involve any kino but I began to kino on the second. Thing I'm worried about with kino on the first date is that it makes you come off like you want something. I mean it all depends too. If your vibing like crazy on the first date than i guess you can kino on the first date but I imagine it make things awkward after that. I just have to wait for the right opportunity to come along. Need to follow up. Establish more rapport and plan a second date, perhaps a hang out with friends. I really like SY. she is gorgeous and here I am, out of all the guys in my SG who have definitely tried, i was the one who well got the first date.

Notes about SY from the first date.

- Dad is a doctor
- Allergic to her cousins cat, not all three but just one
- Likes chocolate
- Had 3 birthday parties, (shoulda picked up on that and asked her more about it)
- 100 roses delivered to her from ex-bf
- Made 600 cranes because she thought 1000 was good luck
- Traveled to HK, Japan, and the Philippines
- Secret passion was to be a ballerina/dancer, is taking traditional korean dancing classes. Dad did not want her to take those classes so she stopped.
- Likes Korean movies, just watched radiostar

Maybe I can ask her to see if she'd be interested in taking dance lessons with me? Don't tell her your ex made you stop. You don't want her to think she is taking the place of your ex.

Say, I'm thinking about taking these salsa classes down at rutgers and I'm looking for a dance partner.