APRROACH ANXIETY

So I successfully pulled off a warm approach tonight, I guess I'm learning how to get the hang of this. Still I feel pissed at myself that I didn't pull off a cold approach.

One of the girls I met DHV'd me. I asked her to show me her moves and she said I had to earn it. Good line, one I'll have to use in the future. "You'll have to earn it, show me something". She even did the "I asked you first". I gotta learn how to handle those responses. She's trying to make me go through her hoop.

Shoulda said,

Me: "Is it worth earning?" Turn the tables on her. Out alpha her DHV
Her: "Of course it's worth it!"
Me: "It's fine you don't have to show me if you don't want to" and smile

Turn and engage other members of the group. Make her feel left out, punish her by turning your attention away. The end goal is not to see her moves, it's to DHV. Show her you won't fall for her hoops. Don't be emasculated

Her: I asked you first, at this point i should Neg
Me: *Playfully reluctantly, kino* Okay fine, since your sooo interested . . . I'll tell you one first but you have to tell me one after that.

I noticed the girls warming up to me later on in the night. I got alot of ioi's from JK. She literally went up to me and put her hands around me. Talk about aggressive. Shoulda have said "woah there, slow down" after the first time "this ones going to cost you, you only get one free trial but I'll give you one last go because I like you", make her do a turn, turn her into me, "Alrite shows over", turn away? Is that too much?

Shoulda hit on that model

Me: My friends over there wanted me to come over and dance with you. Do you think we can dance for a bit. It'd be really embarrassing for me if you rejected me infront of all them.
Her: "Okay" Hopefully
While we're dancing go into styles qualify routine:
I need to be honest with you, My friends really did want me to come over here to dance with you. But I also wanted to come talk to you. I saw you on stage before, your one of the models right? Your really beautiful and beauty is wonderful but there are alot beautiful women but it's not the most important thing . . .

LY was leaning up against me when we were talking plus she was leaning in to everything i said. I kept cool body langauge and I got her info. Wonder if she'll facebook me. Laughing Ly.

Plus I'm terrible with names, dang it, I just can't remember anyones name. Gotta find a good recovery for not remembering a persons name. Some kinda neg hit that lets me get away with it.

I'm loving this. I see all these afc's trying so hard and just turning these women off by being to aggressive. I'm no pua right now but I'm starting to see their mistakes and I feel more confident when I talk to these girls, I wasn't nervous talking to NY or SY. I think they can sense that. I gotta remember to follow up on facebook.

I said NY wasn't exactly long term material because she's a dancer. F*ck all those ideas. WW was right. Just because a girl does that stuff doesn't mean I should judge her. Screw it! I remmeber the girl she was in HS. *Sigh, and I know she is down this path because of her dad.

Gotta follow up on NY, SY, JK, JC, JDC, LY

I need to go out more. I gotta find some wingmen and hit the clubs weekly. I need to do my first cold approach and kiss close. It's time to get more serious.