Haunted by a mistake

It's just so painful when you've made a mistake that may have cost you the opportunity get to know a girl you really find attractive. When SY asked me that question yesterday, I should have answered, built rapport. I should have waited till the end of the conversation after building some comfort to politely point out that I noticed she was cold and say "here's my jacket take it, I can't
stand to watch you so cold but don't get any ideas, I'm just trying to be polite :)." Why! I wish I could have a do-over.

On the other hand, I didn't do so bad today out with my friend EO. Opened well at the liquor store and had the set going with my fake I.D, open. Carried the conversation by asking how old they thought I looked.

Built good rapport with EO today at the bar. I think by just relating to what he was saying and improving my listening skills, correcting myself when I interject. I never realized how much I interrupted people. My ex was right after-all. Is that what I did to her? No wonder she started closing off to me. At least I listened well enough to EO today to make him feel understood.
I also had a decent conversation with the bartender. She was cute. I need to work on my threading better and leave less room for gaps. Working girls tend not to stay long. I needed to have the next thing queued up in my mind before the current topic gets boring. Should have asked for her number. I really need a nicer phone. I'm frankly embarrassed to number close with my current phone.

All the master pick-up artists innovated and synthesized. They took bits and pieces from other PUA's to create their own unique style and they added their own originality to it to make their own unique way of seduction. Pick up artist seems like such an inadequate title when it's about so much more than just pick-up.